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“A lot about him (her brother) was really lovable, but
having someone with a mental illness in your family can also cause a lot of
chaos,” Frith said.
“It can be a strain on friendships and personal
relationships.
“Unlike physical disabilities, mental illness is not
something that we can identify just by looking at someone.
“As a result, it is hard for people to understand and
accept, which is why relationships end and carers of the mentally ill often
find themselves alone.
“Mental illness not only has a huge affect on the person
with the illness, it affects everyone around them.”
Frith’s role is to work with the Hospital’s mental health
services to ensure the needs of carers are being met, identifying any gaps in
the service or areas which would be improved.
Through carer support groups, Frith also provides
information and referral to carers.
According to Frith, carers carry around with them a range
of emotions and problems they often feel no-one can help them with.
These are particularly difficult for parents caring for
their mentally ill children.
“There is a certain amount of grief and loss for carers of
those with a mental illness,” she said.
“Parents want their children to achieve their full
potential and often those who develop a mental illness do not achieve their
hopes and dreams.
“Parents often find themselves struggling with their
day-to-day care as well as the grief of losing who they hoped their children
would become.”
As mental illness is becoming less of a societal taboo,
mental health carer information and support groups have been established.
For further information about support available to mental
health carers in Victoria visit The Mental Health Foundation of
Australia (Victoria) website or the ARAFMI Mental Health Carers and Friends
Association.
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